In the spirit of the month of Thanksgiving (even though that should be a "daily bread" type of thing), I decided to participate in the trend. I intend to do it weekly and possibly include pictures. A little something different, but that's what I need right now. Here goes!
Week 1
November 1: A blessing
Well, my favorite hymn is "Count Your Blessings" so it is hard to pick one. At this current moment, it would be how God is growing my worldview. He is increasing my understanding of His people and their cultures all over the world. This is a blessing I do not take for granted. I have grown so much in the past year being outside of my normal. I see people differently.
November 2: A time when you were strong
A little over two years ago, my grandfather passed away. I count myself as blessed to have had all four of grandparents in my life until the age of 22. That is certainly a blessing. When my papaw passed away, I experienced the death of a loved one firsthand for the first time. Even in times of immense sadness, I found comfort knowing where he would spend eternity. To no longer have pain or suffer. While it was a difficult time, I feel like God gave me strength to encourage others and share this spirit of peace as well. It was nothing I did, but it was how God used me.
November 3: A person that lifts you up
How can I pick?! I have so many. The person of today would be my BFF Reagan. We go way back, like when she and Rachel took dance classes and we all played hide and seek in church. She is one of the most consistent and thoughtful people I have ever known. In the words of Albus Dumbledore (and she knows I only know this quote from the movies), she is the epitome of a "fierce, fierce friend". She has texted me every day (whether or not I have responded) since I have been in Burkina. That daily communication has built a bond I cherish. She is always encouraging and has been gifted with wisdom. She is always supportive. I am thankful to count her as a friend!
November 4: Family
This is a topic I can write on for days. I grew up with a loving, kind-hearted family. The focus was always God-centered and serving. My parents were committed to each other and to their children. They loved us and told us daily. I have two older sisters (yes, I'm the baby and the dictionary definition of one) who have spoiled me since day one. While bossy, they both looked out for me and modeled Godliness daily. Even when Rachel and I had fist fights and Michele had to break them up (pretty sure we might have been in high school), we still loved each other. Being closer in age, Rachel and I have a novel's worth of stories that exemplify what happens when you have two daughters with strong personalities. We have always been close. And for the record, we have not had a fist fight in at least 7 years (don't do the math).
Another blessing is that I have two families! I got another family over two years ago, and they are a gift I am thankful for. The Brills have embraced me. They are opposite of my family and are often loud and rowdy. They are heartfelt people who love each other. I am so blessed to be a part of my big family!
November 5: Friends
Once again, a topic I can write on for days. Specifically, I am thankful for old friends and new. God blessed me with like-minded friends my whole life. Some of my closest friends are people I grew up with and continue to talk to daily. Other friends I met at the end of high school and was blessed to continue our friendship through college. Sweet Kenzie, you taught me how to be friends with girls. Thank you. In college, I even had my first "friend group". How cool is that? God gave me loving roommates who put up with my weird self, such as "making my bed" (throwing sheets over the pillow), studying late at night, and only drinking organic milk (because it was good for a month). I'm thankful to call these ladies my friends today. I have been blessed with a loving "family" of women from my college days. Emilee, Reagan, Kelly, and Ashley are four of my greatest blessings.
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| With my sweet Kenzie Ruth. |
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| ST Family (except for Ashley, I don't think she was in the family yet) |
Last, I am incredibly thankful for my Burkina friends. My prayer in coming to BF was "God, this will be so much easier if I have friends". While "easy" may not be the right word, it has been far more edifying. The international community ebbs and flows and is constantly evolving. People come, people leave. It's life. However, I have had friends who are consistent. Friends who kept up via Facebook messages while we were stateside. They make life here more normal. I love sitting on a couch and talking to Melissa for hours. I love baking cookies with Molly. I love going for walks in the park with Autumn. I love eating Southern food with Joanna. A few weeks ago, Seth was gone for an entire week on a water well drilling trip. I was so busy hanging out with these girls I was plum exhausted by the time he got back. I am the baby of the bunch, but they love me all the same. Even when they make '80s and sometimes '90s pop culture references and I have a confused look, they love me the same.
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Girls' Night Out in Ouaga. We went to eat at St. Matthieu before Joanna left for her stateside. Left to right: myself, Joanna, Melissa, and Molly |
November 6: Your children (Pets are allowed)
Well, I don't have any actual children yet. So today I am thankful for my dog Maggie. What a sweet, cuddly 14-pound ball of energy! I never imagined having a little dog, but it is the best. She loves to cuddle, like all the time. She sleeps about 16 hours a day, kind of like a cat. As I write this, she is wedged between me and the arm of the recliner. My parents brought her to us in Burkina last Christmas. She loves to play. She is not the most teachable dog, but she is fairly well-behaved. We have been working on "shake" for almost a month, and she still tries to bite me every time I grab her hand. Sometimes ya win, sometimes ya lose. Due to our current political situation in Burkina and concerns for stability, we have decided to send her back to the States with my parents when they come for Thanksgiving. While Seth and I are sad to be without her for a few months, we would be even more sad to leave her if it ever came to that. We are soaking up these last few days before she leaves. Wish I could see her adjust to America, she's gonna be so cold!

November 7: A failure you have had
A failure. Hmmm... If by failure one can mean having a failing grade, then yes! My favorite story of failure reminds me of my old English major days at MC. I was taking British Romantic Poetry with Dr. Miller. Definitely not the easiest class, but geez did I learn a lot! I paid attention in class, read the material, and even studied outside of class (unheard of, I know). When the midterm came around, I was ready. Game face. I took the test and felt pretty good. Until I got it back. I made a D and was surprised. I went to meet with the teacher to help clear up some confusion. I ran in circles saying "This is my best work. This is all I can do. I did my best". Pretty sure I might have even shed a tear or two. Then...he shattered my world.
"Rebecca, I'm going to tell you this because it is likely no one has ever told you. Sometimes, your best isn't good enough".
Um, untrue. It is. My parents always said "just do your best". Well, my best got me a D. The professor went on to explain that even though it was my best, it was not worthy of a higher grade. No one is the best at everything. You can't know everything every time and get a bright shiny A. Sometimes, you know what you know and you get a D. Your best isn't good enough, and you have to move on.
That being said, I finished the class with a B. It cost me nothing shy of blood, sweat, and tears. But I did it. And I have never been more proud of a B! I guess it wasn't a complete failure. It was a failure by definition of trying and not succeeding. But I learned a life lesson that I'll always remember.